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Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Thoughts on Young Lives

I was hit hard by a mom's post today on Truth. You see, her daughter - a vital, darling child - is facing an uncertain future, and the truth of the matter is a tough concept. I admire this mother, this minister, this woman for moving so carefully and thoughtfully into what may come. I ache for this family and every day they wake to face life with cancer, yet giggle at the lovely, funny videos of their daughter and her siblings laughing and playing. This little girl is the picture of joy.

Strangely, this coincides with my continued ache and selfish grief over the illness of Rev. Dr. Forrest Church... I am selfish because I will miss his writings and his kind and quick wit... yet he has given such a gift in facing the knowledge of his certain future: Love and Death: My Journey through the Valley of the Shadow. He has given so much - and has found such joy in doing so.

The common theme I see in these two common yet utterly uncommon people is that they have chosen to take up the mantle of a great gift: to face the future with courage - and with truth. Grief and joy are woven tight, though, and, in my opinion, it takes a greater courage to face the spectre of an early death than many of us will ever really realize. Hope is reserved for the little things... the bright and shiny moments we treasure and hold close to our hearts. But truth? Truth is a part of courage that carries us through the future with strength and devotion - and no small measure of love.

And it is ultimately love that I see shining through those eyes I hold dear - both the mom of whom I speak, and Rev. Church. Enduring, faithful and patient love. May it keep them in good stead.

Wednesday, July 09, 2008

Broader Subject: Chaplains in the Military

I got this wonderful comment to my last post from Bill, and it has given me a lot of food for thought:

I found Chaplains doing all sorts of useful work in Iraq including reconciliation, conflict resolution, and peace making with Iraqis...teaching many concepts we teach in our Churches. The Iraqi Army has never had Chaplains although they're tightly modeling themselves after the US now and a Chaplain I spoke with thought that concept might be coming to them. I'm guessing most non-Western Armies today have Chaplains... I suspect they'd be better off with them.

I guess what I am thinking is that the spot chaplains fill in the services that have to do with work like this - the real work of rebuilding lives and nations, in my mind, does somehow belong with the people who are trained in compassion and peace, and for that, chaplains are ideal.

However, I also believe that there is an inherent problem with the association of that work with those same chaplains who are performing a dual role - a paid, sanctioned role - in the organization where they are performing religious services for troops. I can see them being there for counseling and pastoral care - but leading services and prayer? Even supposedly non-denomination services and prayer? Perhaps it is not in the nature of most people to realize that to the atheist - to most atheists anyway - that such actions are used by many people as a method of exclusion. What is intended by the chaplain to give succor to many gives pain to some. Is that just? Let the laypeople guide themselves... but don't pay a chaplain to lead the services. In the general population of the country, a pastor or priest is called by his or her congregation or settled by his or her diocese... but that is not the case in the military. Pastor is as pastor does... or doesn't.

Allow me to digress a moment. First of all, we called Rev. Bill to lead our congregation several years ago... it was a choice we made as an independent congregation, not part of a governmental or particularly strong organizational body (the UUA promotes and gives remarkably gentle guidance and guidelines - they are not a top-down organization as a general rule). Secondly, within that congregation, as a secular humanist, it does not usually bother me to be led in congregational meditation - I welcome the time to center - but that is me. Some others *do* chafe and find it hard to settle during that time - they say they find it too close to prayer, though we have all come together to be as a congregation - all of us, from all spectra of the rainbow. Interestingly, our minister, Rev Bill, usually opens the service with the invocation "Holy One"... and I have come to my own interpretation (for me it is the congregation - the one body meeting as the holy). However, many atheists may be unable, unwilling, or feel it an unnecessary burden to be asked to interpret, reinterpret or explain away, and will join a small group within the congregation or choose to form an alliance outside... just as many Christians would find Rev Bill's "Holy One" to be much, much too far from "God" or "Jesus", and will go elsewhere. That is part of the freedom of choice we have in our society to decide where and how we will worship - or respect the earth - or simply be. Soldiers rubbing shoulders do not have that sort of freedom or privacy.

Do you see the differences? Holy wars have been fought over more nuanced differences, and yet, we expect our men and women in uniform to toe the line and accept the status quo as one which *should* be the standard for the next 100 years. That is neither human nor humane to demand, especially not from people doing such physically and mentally demanding work as they are doing. Freedom of religion is one of the core freedoms they hold dear - so why is it that atheists must expect less? Atheists do not as a general rule hold what many would see as religious services, though they may hold discussions, or talks about common subjects that hold deep, essential truths for them. But to be ridiculed at the lunch table, denied promotion because superiors feel that their religion "separates" them from their soldiers, and to be thought of as less than an American soldier is just insane.

Why, in fact, is religion even an issue in the military? Why is it that anyone knows your personal religious preferences? I realize the symbol of your religion is inscribed on your dogtags... but why is it a proper matter for discussion in the workplace of war? Do your job and do it with honesty, integrity, and skill... and leave the rest to your conscience.

Finally, simply out of my own curiosity, why would most armed services be better off with chaplains? If it is for the secular work they are doing, I can understand that... but if it is for leading men and women in prayer and services, I must respectfully disagree. I *do* see that chaplains have always faced a certain moral duality in the armed forces - a tough one that I must admit I could never breach. They are men and women who, on the field of battle, must give solace to the soldier who has the potential to take human life. That is the inherent role of the soldier, and the inherent role of the chaplain as it stands in the private lives of the soldiers. I say, let them deal with that moral duality one on one with the soldiers, but let them use their unique roles - the ones Bill mentioned and I quoted at the beginning of this post - the secular work they are doing. Isn't that enough pastoral work for a serviceman or woman? Why lead services when there is a Constitutional question at stake? But better yet, why lead services when they fly in the face of the polity of the government, the DoD, and servicemen themselves?

It is a question that is sure to continue - and I will be interested in what the Pentagon has to say in its rebuttal tonight. It is due by midnight Eastern, and I suspect it will be a very interesting document, indeed.

I look forward to the continuing conversation.

Sunday, July 06, 2008

Trying to Get Over the Crabbies

My usual bouyant mood is somewhat marred by the really lousy feeling that I am coming down with the flu. However, it would appear that this feeling is also one of the potential side effects of the Rifampin I am taking for the sinus infection, so I am taking Tylenol and trying to grin and bear it; only ten more days. However, I am calling the doc tomorrow and making sure that this isn't a bad side effect, just annoying. The Cipro has never made me feel like this, so I am assuming it's the Rifampin. Nasty stuff.

This morning was a comedy of errors involving two of our animals, the house-flipper next door, and a colleague of Crash's - and the whole fiasco began at 5:30 - so I didn't get too much sleep last night on top of the flu-like feeling. Needless to say, I didn't make church today, and I was really planning on it to the point that I had picked out what I was going to wear the night before; usually I just throw something on the morning of. I am really sorry to have missed this morning's sermon - we had a guest pulpit leader - Rabbi Micah Greenstein - and he was talking about why America needs liberal religion. I can't wait to hear the details from Crash when he gets home this afternoon. The Rabbi always gives a good talk, and I am sure this was no exception.

Watched Casablanca this morning/afternoon on TCM - I had forgotten how much I love that movie. But, now the television is off and I am hunkering in to study hard. Mostly French, but some history in there, too.

Don't know much else, but I am going to try to stop biting people's heads off and recognize that I am the one who is really off right now.

Mea maxima culpa to anyone I have really snapped at lately. ::hugs::

Monday, June 02, 2008

THIS is the Kind of Stuff I Put Up With... No, Really!

Thanks, Ann, for passing this gem along: Modern Humanist It's a "response" to a very poorly, yet creatively written, term paper. It might even outdo our President Henry from last semester...

Actually, Crash did the putting-up-with all day today.. I was crabby after chuch, at Costco, when we got home.... and until I went to bed for a nap. Got up and everything was fine, but dang... cranky is as cranky does.

Went through my entire closet, my tops drawer, my three drawers of slacks, shorts and capris (yes, I have an entire drawer of capris. How did that happen??) - and got rid of a LOT. GOODWILL! In the meantime, I discovered that some of my favorite clothes - clothes I really couldn't bear to be rid of (I bought a lot of them when I was up in Ohio taking care of my grandma when she broke her hip in 1999 and they fit for all of six months - some gorgeous stuff), but were too small the past several years - now fit beautifully. I have gotten rid of so many clothes the past two summers - all the 2x and 3x - including suits and dresses - lots of sweatshirts, slacks that are now oversize by five or six sizes.. the list goes on and on. Anyway we dropped off one bag yesterday, and have another bag for tomorrow. And if anything, these clothes are nicer than most of last summer's goodies; these are the ones I had saved for "just in case I gained the weight back," so they are in great shape and in materials I love. Ahhh, let someone have a go at them!

Suitcase is packed (mostly) and the miscellaneous loose ends I need to tie up in the next two days don't seem too onerous. Had to pack the suitcase to last me three weeks and three different climate zones. It's going to be interesting - and it's a lot more than I wanted to bring! But, I got all the clothes into one suitcase, and the toiletries into a bag I use just for that purpose... and have my black messenger bag filled and at the ready. All that remains is to put in the loose bathroom stuff I use every day into the toiletries bag on Wednesday morning. Am finally looking forward to getting up to Louisville, now that I have a couple days to think about it and rest a little before the chaos hits. Then it's scoot back here the following Wednesday (arriving early Thursday - early enough to catch a few hours' sleep, I hope) then head out for Colorado. Whee! Mustn't forget the fresh spearmint, peppermint and rosemary from our garden. They won't let me in the house in Colorado without them. LOL

Tomorrow? I have to go to the tire and service place to have the car checked to make sure all is well for the trip. Then I am going to vacuum, wash and wax it. Then come home and take a nap since I am up this late and need to be up early early tomorrow. Hope to help clean the house some, too - like mopping floors, cleaning bathrooms, etc... - to help Crash while I am gone, and to help him leave the house neat when I come get him next week; all the way around this takes a lot of burden off him, as he already has a Honey-Do list that is quite lengthy.

Had a terrific time in services this morning - really terrific - great sermon (yay Rev Bill!) and the music? We were *ON* today. This was the second-to-last Sunday for our Director of Music and we went all out trying to show him what we have learned while we have been under his tutelage. He is incredible, as is his wife, and we will miss them dearly. FTR, it was after the postlude that I really started getting crabby. Hungry and tired - and coming down from an incredible musical high - was not a good combo.

I am afraid that Sophia the outdoor kitty appears to have met with an accident... that, or some kind soul has adopted her, for she is gone. She has been gone for several days now, and every morning we open the door, hoping against hope she will be there, but no luck. Such a sweet girl. My heart is just a little bit broken over this.

Not much else to report - I think this is enough for one sitting! Will start posting a travelogue when I get up and running with the trips (no pics for the first part of the trip, though; I am not taking camera equipment to Louisville).

I feel terrific tonight, and wish all my days were like this. ::smile::




Friday, May 30, 2008

Thinking About (And Thanking) Rev. Dr. Forrest Church

Just today we received our copy of the latest UUWorld magazine and while I knew that Rev. Dr. Church was terminal with his cancer, this issue, with his forthright and kind words about death really struck me as a kind, gentle way of saying 'goodbye.' I am utterly unashamed to say that I shed a hundred tears over his reflective article.

This vital man - vital in so many meanings of the term - has been - ever since I started considering Unitarian Universalism as my path - my spiritual guide in absentia whether he knows it or not. While I disagree with him on some specifics about God and that milieu, I find it peaceful to disagree with him - he encourages our free, wide-ranging minds to think and move freely - and to find active and loving disagreement as part of the fruits of life. In other words, he has guided me away from absolutist thinking and helped me smile and breathe and enjoy the gifts others bring to the table.

And what a myriad table we have! So much to celebrate! And so many gifts to share!

FChurch I just wish, just once, that I could have met Rev. Dr. Church in real life. Now, I wouldn't think of intruding on his exquisitely precious time with those he holds near and dear. But I do want to say one thing: thank you Dr. Church for showing me great patience and encouraging me in ways that strengthen my soul. You have touched me in ways you will never, ever know, and in ways I strive to share in each and every day of my life. You have taught me well, and the flaws in my character are mine, and not those of the teacher. You are a mentor of great strength of character, intelligence, kindness, gentleness - and perhaps most essentially - integrity. We would each to well to be able to adopt any two of those, and you embody the essence of them all. You are a man of rare gifts, sir, and I will miss you more than I can possibly say.

Bless you, and may you find even greater peace in the end. My thoughts will be with you.

Sunday, February 17, 2008

Sucky Weekend With Great Highlights

Overwhelmingly, this has not been a good tummy weekend - was just miserable most of the day yesterday, and part of the day today... wish my upcoming endoscopy/colonoscopy were this week instead of the first week in March. Yeah. I've been feeling THAT ill. Thank goodness for Crash - he has babied me all weekend and been terribly solicitous. Such a kind man. :::::smiling hugs::::: Crash rocks.

BUT, we started watching Kenneth Branagh's Hamlet on DVD last night and it was tremendous - what we saw of it, anyway (we only got through Act I, Scene iv). Can't wait to finish it - probably next weekend at this point. Maybe Tuesday night. We'll see. It's a four hour movie, so it may need to be finished over multiple nights.

I went to church this morning for the first time since ... good grief... Christmas Eve services! Crash said he was worried about me - my color was off and I really didn't feel great - but I enjoyed myself immensely even so. And Rev. Bill gave the most incredible sermon to a packed house. The sermon was on unbelief and disbelief - right up my alley - and it garnered him a round of enthusaistic applause at the end. I'll spend some time with it in a couple days when I get a chance... and when I can download it from him. It really and truly was terrific. A perfect way to go back to attending church!

Went out to lunch with ten other adults and the most adorable baby today - all from church. Such a joyous group!

Am reading the *best* book on gay rights - it's a Greenhaven Press 'American Social Movements' series book called The Gay Rights Movement that was in a YA section of a library somewhere - I got it from Amazon Marketplace for super cheap. Anyway, it is full of primary sources and analysis and I *love* it so far. Have to finish it tonight and write a short paper reviewing it. It's very hard to find at the moment - I think my class bought up all the remaindered copies and available used copies out there - but my... if you get a chance, it really is quite good. Last week we read Out of the Past by Neil Miller, and I loved that, too. This topic really is out of my field of study, but I am enjoying the heck out of these books - I'll take them while I can get them!

Don't know much else. Still pondering the other item. We're having a conversation now, and it's... interesting. I am tentatively hopeful, though there is a long way to go before I can say anything. At least we're talking about this whereas before this we never took this option seriously. It's a fascinating discussion.

Sunday, February 03, 2008

Islamophobia

This is perhaps one of the most anger-provoking articles I have read in some time.

Blowback from the GOP's Holy War

It's on Salon, so you have to click past the ad (wait for the little icon to appear in the upper right hand corner of the ad screen), but it is *well worth* the time - and the anger. I wish this would come out more prominently in the press and inform more people.

Can I Get An 'Amen'?

Over on Philocrites there is a well-reasoned, wonderful discussion of why to support Barack Obama in '08 - and if I haven't made my position clear, I think reading Philocrites will at least make it more understandable. What a terrific post.

Crash and I discussed this at length last night, too, and were hashing out just why we had problems with the Clinton run and were leaning toward Obama. I want to make certain that it isn't a visceral thing - that there are clear and unmistakable socio-political reasons for choosing one over the other. Philocrites cuts to the chase of the discussion we had last night... in 500 words or less; it took us several hours. Not that I mind hashing things like this out for hours at a time, but I do like seeing a clear summary afterwards. Nice to see it validated by someone else.

While I am at it, I should also point out Tete-a-Tete-Tete's post on Mike Huckabee... a skeery thing if ever I've seen one. I've always felt that the man was a bit looney tunes, but this really fingers why.

Can't wait to get out on Tuesday to caucus. This is going to be a heck of a day!

ADDENDUM: One other thing you *really* need to check out is the timely and fascinating post on Beacon Broadside about Obama's religion - it's quite good and *very* relevant to the ongoing bruhaha over his religious choice vs. the media spin on his religion.

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Scurrilous Muslims?

How is being Muslim in any way scurrilous?

I'm asking you, Barack.

Why are you running so hard and fast from what is, after all, half your heritage? And doing it in such as way to alienate Muslims here and abroad?

I understand your faith being a chosen one... believe me, I understand that; I have come to my own faith that way, too. But to say that those who "accuse" you of being Muslim are somehow "attacking" you in a "scurrilous" manner... that is just inflammatory.

Why not accept that Islam was a part of your youth, but that you have come to a chosen faith that fits your belief system better? Or that you find deeper peace or meaning in Christianity than you found *for yourself* in Islam. Either of those would be better answers than adopting the tone that somehow you are being attacked in an unjust manner.

Yes, I have received the e-mail to which you keep referring... and yes, I keep e-mailing the senders back and countering each point with the facts. But I don't denigrate Muslims or Islam in the process. You, sir, do. Do you forget that Muslims are part of your constituency?

I am trying very hard to like you and your platform. But this religion thing... this could very well break the deal for me. Own up to your past and embrace it... just as much as you embrace your present - and your future. It's a matter of character, sir, and a matter of conscience.

Thank you for listening.

Laura in Memphis

Saturday, January 19, 2008

Religious (Is it just religious?) Bigotry

Remember what I was talking about the other day about taking a religious journey? Establishing an Interfaith Dialogue?

Well, I watched the infamous Tom Cruise Scientology video and must admit that at this point I am wondering about the tenets of any religious organization that encourages such vitriol towards people who even remotely appear to question its structure or beliefs. MTV translates the thing, if you are wondering about the code words in it, and the Washington Post lambastes it without going too far overboard, in my opinion.

I mean, really... Tom Cruise is not encouraging an interfaith response. In fact, he discourages it. He discourages interaction with Suppressive People AKA 'wogs' AKA the rest of us - people who might lead good Scientologists from their path. He laughs and stares crazily at people who might have legitimate questions about the faith they are considering, and he insists that his way is the only, best and true way. I don't often label other paths as detrimental, but this smacks of a cult in every sense of the word.

Most religions encourage questions. Judaism encourages them... Unitarian Universalism encourages them... all forms of Paganism I know of encourage them... even Catholicism wrestles with the Big Questions. There is wonder, there is room for deep and introspective thought. And there is room for doubt. Scientology does not allow for any of that as far as I can see. There is one way for the Scientologist, and that way costs - both in terms of free, open, questioning thought and money.

So what do we do? How do we approach the moral issues tied up in someone else's religious path? I try very hard to vote with my dollars, and gently approach those around me with lovingkindness - my own path and actions speak louder than hitting someone over the head with my faith. But in the case of cults, is there a deeper moral responsibility on the part of society at large to inform and educate?

It's a question which will be with us for a long time to come - issues of faith are always sticky. But I know what my own response will be, and it will not be one of passivity. I cannot stand by and watch people like Tom Cruise run roughshod over our freedoms and beliefs in an attempt to rid the world of what he and his church term Suppressive People - people who question - because that would eliminate, to my way of thinking, the best of what this world has to offer.

Like the words of the hymn say: "We dare to question, we choose to believe..." Isn't that what life is all about?

Memphis

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